Balanced Gaming for Gamers

Work, life and fun in the age of computer games.

Yea. Ok. I get it. What can I do to help? Click here to see how games can be used in your school.

How do I balance my life with computer games?

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1. Enjoy and play games. They are hella-fun.

2. Play outside in meatspace. At least a few hours a week.

3. Depressed? Sad? Hiding? Gaining weight from playing WoW? When playing a game is more about hiding from real life than enjoying it, you should probably stop playing games for a while.

4. Real life friends are fun. have some.

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Introduction to balanced gaming for gamers

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On the lighter side…

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Balanced look at “game addiction”

Pay attention. When things get out of hand, you gotta stop.

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IRL I am ....

Are MMO’s fun?

from hardcore casual:

Tourist jokes aside (not that the tourist problem is a joke, mind you), I’ve come to this brilliant conclusion: MMOs are just not that fun for most people.

I know, shocking.

With all the time we spend going back and forth on how X game is awesome and your MMO sucks, or how game Y would be so much better with feature Z, the majority of gamers are telling of us ALL our games suck. The whole genre, garbage. And in a way they are right. Why in gods name would I pay $15 a month to complete 100 kill x mob quests when I could do far more interesting tasks in a single player RPG? Why would I grind up an imbalanced character so I can PvP ‘sometimes’ when I can just get a FPS for cheap and have all-access to PvP of all flavors?


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Why do you play games?

I believe play is an intrinsic, important part of being human. I really think Wikipedia has it right:

Play refers to a range of voluntary, intrinsically motivated activities that are normally associated with pleasure and enjoyment.[1] Play may consist of amusing, pretend or imaginary interpersonal and intrapersonal interactions or interplay. The rights of play are evident throughout nature and are perceived in people and animals, particularly in the cognitive development and socialization of children. Play often entertains props, animals, or toys in the context of learning and recreation. Some play has clearly defined goals and when structured with rules is entitled a game, whereas some play exhibits no such goals nor rules and is considered to be “unstructured” in the literature (source).

I think young people (aged 10 to 18) play games because kids are wired to learn through play. I think play is natural, and I think absence of play is really bad for the human soul. I think video games are actually really fun patterns for people to solve.

I also think there is something about pretending to be someone else, in another place, in another role, is really fun.


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Hiding?

Hiding in a computer game? Computer games are a great place to escape. It’s what makes them fun. Quite similar to reading a good book, actually. Although you don’t hear about too many people addicted to books.

The thing is, computer games are hella-fun. It’s also easy to get lost in them. This site is about helping people to find some kind of balance with computer games. It’s an individual thing, that each gamer needs to figure out for themselves.


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Relax and read this

Are games satanic?

Yes.

There is no way your soul is going to survive computer games. Like, play tetris for an hour, and you are screwed. Like the hot weather? Better get used to it, because your ass is going to fry if you play video games.

Remember, life is serious.


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Got a quick fix for me?

Looking for an easy solution? Looking for someone to tell you to spend 45 minutes per day playing certain games? Want to hear me tell you it’s ok to ignore your family and friends and play computer games?

Go away.

If you are willing to think about what works for you, then looking at this website is a great first step.


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